on maintaining celibacy
Question
QUESTION: sir, It really inspiring that you are showing a path of encouragement to those who are fighting with tooth & nail
to refrain themselves from sexual thought & activities.
sir my question is that after having a self control I tend to loose my semnatic fluid within a month which really break my confidence . so sir how can I came out of those frustration?
ANSWER: Hello there,
Hope you are doing good. Thanks for the query, let me try and answer.
Q: What is the way out for a celibate from wet dreams?
A: Wet dreams are a result of hidden and suppressed sexual currents from within which find a way out during the dream state. They are also the result of strong sexual karma etched into the causal body or the 'Karana sharira' - The repository of our past actions. Overcoming this problem will require very honest efforts, determination and a strong, nonfluctuating desire to be free from the grip of sexuality. Most importantly, unswerving devotion and love for god with constant prayers to redeem us from the illusion of 'Maya' is important.
At the physical level a celibate must indulge in yogasana/ physical exercise on a daily basis without fail to support transmutation of the vital essence. At the mental level, one must keep one's thoughts pure and free from anger, passion and excitement. It is also required that one sets aside some time of the day to meditate upon god (without asking for any materialistic wants) with an intention of gratitude, love and devotion.
With constant efforts based on honesty, sincerity and determination, success will slowly come and wet dreams become less and less frequent and finally disappear. This will aid the celibate in making concrete progress towards becoming a total 'Urdhvaretha' yogi.
Trust this helps
God bless and have a nice day :-)
Dhananjay
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QUESTION: Sir thank you for your answer.Hope this would work.
Sir my one question is there a huge loss during wet dream
for one maintaining sexual abstinence?.Hope you wont mind for this .
Answer
Hello there,
I presume you mean to ask if there is much loss of vital essence in a wet dream. The quantity of loss depends on numerous factors such as intensity of the sexual currents from within, period of abstinence and certain physiological factors. Ordinarily in a true celibate, wet dreams are rare and do not involve much loss.
Trust this helps
God bless and have a nice day
Dhananjay :-)